…because I am a Muslim, that’s why…

I made a decision probably one of the most difficult I will have ever made in my life.  I had no choice and I knew they probably would not understand due her to cultural upbringing.  My inner self kept fighting with my outer self.  It was a long battle that would challenge my health and many friendships.

I made this decision because I was a Muslim.  Was it the right one, only God knows.  My biggest fear is the damage my decision may have had on others but I had no choice.

Why did I make this decision?  Why not a year or two year earlier?  Less people would have been hurt by then.

I will see the consequence of my decision, inshallah.  I for saw it in my dreams.

I did it became I a Muslim, that’s why…but was it a good decision…

Fighting Temptation

Yesterday was a very trying day for me.  It was one of those days were I really wanted to drink a couple Saigon Red beers or 5-6 whiskey with cokes.  I was so tempted. Over three weeks ago I would have done it.

Without getting into details, I was betrayed yesterday though I had known about it for some time.  Yesterday was the first time I had to come to grips and face it.  I felt devastated and I really wanted to vent out.  Alcohol was one way for me to do it the last 6 years here.  I did not care I was a Muslim, I still drank…

Yet, I did not drink the Saigon Red or whiskey with coke.  I met friends last night, I could have easily gotten a bottle of beer but I did not.

I just thought it was not worth it…but I really wanted it…

Is alcohol forbidden in Islam? (Free-Minds.org)

I found this post at Free-Minds.org which definitely will create a lot of debate.  I decided to include the entire text of the article below.  I know many of you may disagree with the assertion that it “may” be okay to drink alcohol as a Muslim.  I also know some that may agree.

Is alcohol forbidden in Islam?

In many discussions I have witnessed regarding the subject of alcohol, the conclusion predominantly is that it has been `forbidden` or that it is `off-limits` regardless if the person debating is a follower of the Hadiths or is researching based on the laws of the Quran only.

This short article will attempt to put an end to the questions and debates on this issue by analyzing the straightforward verses relating to alcohol in the Quran:

“O you who believe, do not approach the Salat while you are intoxicated, until you know what you are saying. Nor if you have had intercourse, unless travelling, until you bathe. And if you are ill, or traveling, or one of you has excreted feces, or you had sexual contact with the women, and could not find water, then you shall select from the clean soil; you shall wipe your faces and hands. God is Pardoning, Forgiving.” (4:43)

“O you who believe, intoxicants, and gambling, and altars, and arrows of chance are tools of affliction used by the devil. You shall avoid him so that you may be successful.” (5:90)

“They ask you about intoxicants and gambling. Say: “In them is great harm, and a benefit for the people; but their harm is greater than their benefit.” And they ask you how much are they to give, Say: “The excess.” It is thus that God clarifies for you the revelations that you may think.” (2:219)

“And from the fruits of the palm trees and the grapes you make wine and a good provision. In that is a sign for a people who comprehend.” (16:67)

“Is the example of Paradise; that the righteous have been promised with rivers of pure water, and rivers of milk whose taste does not change, and rivers of wine that are delicious for the drinkers, and rivers of strained honey, and for them in it are all kinds of fruits, and a forgiveness from their Lord; like that of those who abide in the Fire, and are given to drink boiling water that cuts-up their intestines?” (47:15)

The usual arguments presented on this subject are listed below with their relevant responses:

Argument # 1: Alcohol is `haram/forbidden` [Read more...]

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